BUT YOU CAN’T UNLESS SHE GIVES YOU PERMISSION BECAUSE IT’S ABUSE OTHERWISE. WHY… WHYYYY James… if you’re going to insist on writing that she signs this contract to enable her handing over control then at least write abusive sex AFTER she does so!!!
After going through this blog, I actually looked up BDSM. Turns out that a sub prefers to be respected, instead of teated like shit like James writes.
Respecting a human being?! WHAT A CONCEPT!!! <— Heavy sarcasm. Just a note to anyone who thinks FSOG is actual BDSM: no. Just no.